This is from today. I had bought a puzzle ball from the toy store and we put it together today. But more exciting than the puzzle ball is that today FOR THE FIRST TIME VLADIK TOLD ME HE LOVED ME! Well, actually a couple weeks ago Keith tickled him and told him to say I love you mom for him to stop, which he did, but I didn't count that. Today was of his own free will. We were watching Scooby Doo, that I had downloaded for him, on the laptop when it started to beep because the battery was low. I had brought the charger because I knew I was going to be at the orphanage a long time today. So we went and plugged the laptop in and the couch nearest where the plug was was occupied by some other kids so he stood up with the laptop sitting on the windowsill for a while. Then the kids left so I pulled the couch a little closer to the plug and put the laptop on it for him to watch there and he said "Mom sit". So I obliged and he snuggled up to me and said "I like Mom" and I put my arm around him and squeezed. Then he said "I love Mom". SO HAPPY!!! I couldn't count the number of times I have told Vladik I love him and I was starting to get a bit sad that he hadn't said it back but I reminded myself that it would happen and it did! If you think about, how many times in the last 5 years that Vladik has been in the orphanage would Vladik have had someone tell him they love him or him tell them he loves them too? Probably never. Living life without being told you are loved everyday must be tough. But Keith and I plan for Vladik to never go another day in his life without knowing and hearing that he is loved. |
Ahhh... can't beat that feeling I'm sure. Which the Ukraine boy haircut which is basically a guy's haircut with bangs... not my favorite :)
ReplyDeleteYou are right across and down from Sam's (Steak from hamburger). Downstairs in the mall (?) is where we tried to get pizza at the pizza place that was out of pizza :)
Hang in there Julie- we got out of the Ukraine in record time (4 days) and I am praying that yours goes just as fast. When you are in Kiev take Vladik to the market right across the street from the SDA. ( we took a cab) Have plenty of greevna because they have tons of cute souvenirs that say Ukraine!! Our kids had a blast picking out stuff and most of it is under 50 greevna- key chains, rubber band bracelets, hats, shirts, bags and handmade little nesting dolls etc.
ReplyDeleteBrian: I will never understand why they give the boys this buzzcut with bangs look?!?! Don't get me wrong, Vladik is still a cutie but I don't think he will have this haircut ever again!
ReplyDeleteKelly: Thanks for the info about the market, I am excited to take Vladik shopping for souvenirs.
Hi, Jules,
ReplyDeleteI am catching up on your adventures while I have some downtime.
I bet you were thrilled to tears to hear Vladik say that he loved you...those words are precious.
See you soon!
Noners